Enjoy life even when troubles arise. Take each day as it comes, full of sorrow, joy, disappointment and surprise. When you can't have big victories, accept small ones.
If you can't be a highway, then just be a trail,
If you can't be the sun, be a star: it isn't by size that you win or you fail-
Be the best of whatever you are.
- Douglas Malloch
Stop blaming others when trouble comes. Problems and changes will come whether we want them to or not. So accept change, not with resignation but with a fierce longing to learn from it. What right now looks like disaster may turn out to be the best thing that happens to us.
Generate enthusiasm within yourself. Enthusiasm keeps you going even when the going gets tough. It enables you to charge ahead winning against all odds.